July 2009 Update

This picture was taken right after we introduced Benjamin to this play house. It is a hand-me-down from his cousin Anna.

This picture was taken right after we introduced Benjamin to this play house. It is a hand-me-down from his cousin Anna.

You may have noticed that I haven’t had much to say on the blog this month. That’s because we’ve slowed down after a busy month of traveling in June, and are enjoying being back in the daily routine at home. That being said, I thought I’d let you know what it is that we’ve been doing.

Brad

  • Brad has been traveling a good bit for work this month. He is involved in some clinical trials for his company, so some of his trips have been related to collecting data for that. This week he’ll be in Minneapolis, where he looks forward to observing his first animal testing. Last week he was in L.A., and the week before that he was in Austin. While in Austin, he did some work, but it was also a “team building” trip – he and some co-workers went tubing on a river.
  • We were able to catch up with a high school friend of Brad’s this weekend who is in town for work. Brad and he went out for dinner, while I stayed home with Benjamin so they could chat without toddler interruptions. :)
  • He has also completed at least two home projects lately. One was the half-finished (until now) process of moving a cable that connects the Tivo to the home network into the attic. Brad had to create a new outlet in the living room and the office in order to run the cable through the walls and attic, and now that it’s done, there’s no longer a cable running across the living room floor into the office! Most recently, he replaced the lawnmower blade when the old one got bent after a run-in with our garden bed metal liner. We agree that it’s more likely that a task will be finished if we do it right away instead of putting it off for days or weeks. I was proud of him for checking these items off his to-do list.

Emily

  • I’ve had a good bit of free time on my hands this summer, since I’m not teaching any classes or doing in writing for Mattel. While Benjamin naps, I do a lot of blogging and Facebooking, but I also find time to read. I have more motivation to do so since I am in a summer book club. Last month we read Same Kind of Different As Me, which was excellent. We met at Olive Garden for dessert one night and had a nice time chatting and discussing the book. This month’s book is Water for Elephants, which tells the story of a man who worked as an animal caretaker for a traveling circus during the Great Depression. I’m about a third of the way through it and have been enjoying it.
  • I’ve also been making my way through some tv shows. I had been making good progress with my re-watching of Lost, starting at season one, but about half way through season three, I got interested in Twin Peaks, that strange murder mystery/drama from the early ’90s. I discovered that it is currently airing on a couple of cable networks. I have watched about half of the series so far and am enjoying it. (I watched the show when it originally aired, but it is fun to watch it again.) And finally, after seeing the set of True Blood during our Warner Bros. studio tour in L.A., I decided to give this vampire show another shot. I’ve been enjoying it more this time, and I find it more interesting because it is set in North Louisiana, an area that (as far as I know) has never been the spotlight of a tv series. It’s been fun to hear my hometown and the surrounding area referenced during the episodes. The setting makes up for the horrible southern accents and the cheap looking vampire fangs.
  • Pretty soon I need to get busy planning my fall courses, as well as decluttering the house. If the weather ever cools off, Benjamin and I will venture out more to the park. For now, we are content to stay inside most of the day, and to venture out once or twice a day to run errands or to visit a friend.
  • My friend Leah was in town last weekend, and Mandy, she, and I had fun going to see a great movie called 500 Days of Summer followed by a leisurely dinner at Mi Cocina.

Benjamin

  • Last week I took Benjamin to the doctor after he had been feverish, fussy, and not napping well for a couple of days. I was afraid he had yet another ear infection, but it turns out his ears were totally clear! All his pediatrician could find was that he had an irritated throat. She tested for strep, and it was negative, so she suggested just giving him Tylenol for the fever, give him plenty of liquids, and just wait for it to pass. Thankfully, his mystery illness was over a couple of days later, and he’s back to his happy self again now.
  • Benjamin has finally ventured into the world of solid foods. He has a few back teeth coming in, which are helping him to chew little bites of veggies, pasta, fruit, and cheese. We’ve experimented with some of the Graduates Lil’ Entrees, which come with a main dish and a veggie. I learned today that he really likes green beans! This is funny, since early on, green beans were the only pureed baby food he didn’t like.
  • He’s also starting to drink more milk. (Ever since we transitioned from bottle to sippy cup, he hasn’t been very interested in drinking a lot of it.) Last night, for the first time, he finished his after dinner/bedtime sippy cup of milk. It’s no surprise that he loves apple juice, and we’ve been keeping him hydrated with water during the summer heat wave.
  • Speaking of the heat wave, we purchased a ten dollar inflatable baby pool, and Benjamin has already enjoyed it a few times. He loves to splash around in the water, and giggles in surprise when it splashes onto his face.
  • We’ve visited with friends a good bit this summer. A week doesn’t go by that we don’t drop in to see Natalee and her two boys, Simeon and Caleb and we’ve also started a weekly visit with Veronica and her son Van, who is only about five months younger than Benjamin. And we see Cara and Benjamin’s cousins a couple of times a week. Benjamin loves playing with other kids.
  • At home, he loves snuggling with us, his stuffed animals, and Chloe. We have yet to capture it on video, but we love the cute “ahhhh” sound he makes when he gives hugs and snuggles.
  • I’ve stayed in shape this summer trying to keep up with Benjamin as he explores the house. If there’s a door or cabinet open, he sees it as an invitation to investigate.
  • We’ve gone to storytime at the library a couple of times this summer. Benjamin is very shy during the songs, huddling down with his face buried in my shoulder, but he loosens up and his eyes get bright and alert when actual story time arrives. Apparently he doesn’t like the felt board stories, because this morning when the librarian put Humpty Dumpty up on a wall of felt, he did his signing for “all done.” He was ready to get back to the books!
  • He prefers to be where I am, rather than isolated in his playroom, but he still plays in there a few times a day. He becomes a little more “hands-off” everyday, as he learns how to entertain himself where I am, which makes it easier for me to cook dinner, wash dishes, fold laundry, etc.

I could say more, but as you can see, I don’t have much exciting to talk about. Instead, I’ll leave you with some pictures that haven’t made their way on here yet.

Family Gathering: July 3-4, 2009

My dad’s parents (Maw Maw and Paw Paw to me) were married on July 4, 1931 (I think the year is correct). For as long as I can remember (and before I was born), the extended family has gathered on Independence Day for a double celebration: the patriotic holiday and their wedding anniversary. When I was a kid, back in the ’80s, it wasn’t uncommon for all five of my dad’s siblings and their families to join with us at Maw Maw and Paw Paw’s house for a weekend of catching up, drinking lots of coffee, and eating fresh watermelon outside at picnic tables. Even though Maw Maw and Paw Paw have passed away, my aunts and uncles still often get together on July 4 to continue the family tradition.

And so, it seemed fitting to have our family reunion on that date. The reunion was downgraded to “gathering” status when not very many people were able to be there, but we had a great time. The participants: Brad, Benjamin, and I; my parents; Cara and her family; Uncle Arlen and Aunt Alice, Aunt Willene and Uncle Lee, my cousin Steve and his family, and my cousin Dana and her family. Final count: three of Maw Maw and Paw Paw’s six children and their spouses, four of their grandchildren and spouses, and nine of their great grandchildren. While that’s a fine representation of my grandparents’ legacy, there are many other grandchildren and great grandchildren out there. All in all, they have six children, 20 grandchildren, and 24 great grandchildren! Hopefully we will have a more official family reunion some time soon, because all those people represent a lot of memories worth revisiting!

Home base for this gathering was Leesville, LA, where we stayed at my uncle’s hotel. We had dinner at the hotel restaurant on Friday night, followed by dessert in one of the hotel conference rooms, where the kids were more free to run around while the grownups visited. On Saturday we drove the half hour to Toledo Bend (a huge body of water that is on the border of East Texas and West Louisiana. We spent the day at my cousin Steve’s camphouse. Since it was 100 degrees that day, we would alternate between hanging out outside and cooling off in the air conditioned house. He has a lot of land that’s right next to the water, which made for some nice scenery while we ate and played. Here’s a rundown of what we did:

  • The Feast – Seriously, there was a crazy amount of food. Name a type of meat, we had it. Brisket, ham, chicken, sausage, ribs… There were also loads of sides. After we digested the lunch for awhile, we enjoyed homemade vanilla ice cream (my favorite!) with brownies. But wait: there was also a peach cobbler and some other sweets.
  • The Baby Pool - Benjamin and the other small kids had fun cooling off in a tropical themed baby pool. This was Benjamin’s first experience in a kid pool, and he loved it!
  • The Boat – When I heard the water was “very choppy,” I decided to stay on shore, but several of the family members went out for boat rides or tubing.
  • The Band – Steve’s camphouse is in a little community of similar homes, and the neighborhood had organized a live band for the day. It was fun to hear them perform from the comfort of the porch or in the shade of the trees around Steve’s place.
  • The Nap - I was thrilled that Benjamin took a nap, even though he was in an unfamiliar place with lots of noise. When he woke up, he was super groggy. He sat inside in one of his second cousins’ toddler papasan chairs for like 30 minutes, just chilling out and listening to the adults’ conversations. He was very cute. (See picture below.)
  • The Hammock – There was a very comfy hammock out by the water, and everyone took turns relaxing in it. Despite the heat, this was still an enjoyable activity because it was in the shade and there was a breeze blowing. (See sweet picture of Brad and Benjamin below.)
  • The Fishing – Steve took some of the kids down to the docks to try their hand at fishing. Even though they didn’t catch anything they had fun.
  • The Puzzle – Cara’s kids enjoy working puzzles, and so they tackles like a 500 piece puzzle while we were there. They only finished about 1/3 of it, but I guess the joy was more in the process than in the finished product.
  • The Watermelon – We finished the day with some delicious and refreshing watermelon. There’s no better fruit to eat outside on a hot day than watermelon!

Staying outside all day isn’t my first choice on a scorching summer day, but enjoying good food and family made it worth it. That night we took a dip in the hotel pool and had pizza. It was fun to not have anywhere to go or anything specific to do. Sometimes it’s nice to just be. Saturday and Sunday morning we ate breakfast at a local place called The Waffle Shoppe. The second morning, Mom and Dad were excited to run into a former backup catcher for the L.A. Dodgers, who was eating breakfast there with the Little League team that he coaches. Small world! Sunday morning after breakfast, the family all went their separate ways. Brad, Benjamin, and I made our way up to I-20 to return to Dallas. After nearly a week of traveling, it was nice to be back home.

Here are some pictures of our family gathering:

Trip to Lake Charles: July 2009

We are still settling back into our daily routine, after returning from Louisiana on Sunday afternoon. Our first destination on the trip was Lake Charles, where we spent four days catching up with Brad’s family. We stayed with his mom (Nana), and also spent some quality time with Jeff and Lisa, and their five month old, Corbin. Some of the highlights: escaping the south Louisiana heat in Nana’s apartment swimming pool, eating a delicious dinner at Casa Manana (Brad and I had the best tacos we’ve ever had!), visiting my Aunt Elaine for breakfast one morning, and listening to old records that we found in Nana’s storage closet (including Michael Jackson’s Thriller). Here are some pictures from our time in Lake Charles: